(MEME) this is how every (person) should be treated

[winterlion]

Meme from patgund and I'm keeping his modifications because he's right!


Actually, I'd say this is how EVERYONE should treat those they love and care for, and gender be dammed.

To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because thats how he rolls.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her. ....
To every guy that she cried in front of...
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
To every guy that would give his seat up...
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.

Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...

My friend guarantees 90% of the men on my page will not repost this cuz they care more about their image

If you are a nice guy repost this with:
this is how every girl should be treated

If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way
repost this with: "To Every Guy"
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*sigh*
I'd like to be the nice guy. I like to think I am at least. Ta!

Comments

Awesome post (will repost)

[gythiawulfie.livejournal.com]

This post could SO make me go on a rant about how women treat men.

And here I am, wanting nice guys (and I dated a few, however a couple turned into complete sociopaths... gah.... you can only fake it for so long I guess.)

But I get tired of getting a guy who has been beaten up so badly by women that I feel more like their therapist than their GF.

Re: Awesome post (will repost)

[winterlion.livejournal.com]

That's part of the problem really.. guys have expectations of being sociopaths and the ones who don't either have to tough it out - or break.
I'm finally toughing it now ... but for a long time I was broken by others expectations.

(being sensitive to others expectations is stupid too IMHO. but it's kind of necessary for learning social interaction rules)

it's kind of frustrating.. guys are expected to be creeps so a lot do (and getting worse).

*shrug*
I'm a lot more comfortable myself but I'm bloody tired of people reading sociopathic agendas into my trying to behave chivalric. I was raised to be a gentleman by my family's standards - so there's things I do just because it should be done.

[misspinki777.livejournal.com]

Thanks for posting this Kitty! It makes me happy to know that nice people (like yourself) can read this list and understand that it's the little things that count most in life.

I surely do appreciate every gentleman (and 'lady') that I meet and I try my best to treat others as I would like to be treated. :)

*hugs*