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I'm out of patience with people who keep making me part of their vendettas.
If you have a bone to pick with someone I consider a friend, take it elsewhere. Deal with it. But don't make me part of it - because cycles of revenge are a failure. They are specifically evil : they disrupt society, disrupt interactions and make the world in general a less friendlier and uglier place.
There is no justice in revenge, there is no righteousness in involving others in a person's grudges.

I'm working on trying to make my life succeed right now, and I want to see all the people I care about move forward.

If I ever hear about anyone I know doing this, ever again, they will be blocked from my life.

A public apology

This is a public apology to surrey_sucks

I did something a while ago that was enormously stupid - something I should never have done. It is something I need to address.
As a result I apologize.


There are no amends I can make, there is nothing more I can do. I have lost a friend through my own stupidity, and have lost a good person.